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It’s mid-April as I write this, and for lots of us, now is the time to start thinking about an annual summer vacation. Yippee! It’s certainly an exciting prospect, with downtime from work, and the opportunity for some much needed R & R (either alone or with loved ones in tow). HOWEVER… for many, summer vacations induce anxiety. All manner of things can go wrong, and the idea of a “perfect” vacation is a lot to live up to.
Prep and plan as you might, your vacation may not go the way you expect it to…
- The weather – torrential rain, wind, cold snaps – where was the sunshine you were hoping for?
- Grumpy companions – you have taken them away for their holidays, but why do they insist on complaining all of the time?
- Transportation – missed or cancelled flights, car breakdowns, other people getting in your way…if only there was an easier way to transport yourself around the world.
- Sickness – you really should have learned the lingo before choosing from the menu!
Sound familiar? Don’t worry; these problems are common to all of us. So, while it is difficult to attain absolute perfection, there are things you can do to improve your chances:
- Do your research before travelling. Find out what the weather is going to be like at certain times of the year in your preferred location, and make sure you read reviews online about airlines, hotels, food places, etc. The better informed you are, the more likely you are to enjoy each aspect of your getaway.
- Choose a destination you will all enjoy. Assuming you aren’t travelling alone, consider the needs of those travelling with you. While you won’t please everybody all of the time, you can still make compromises so that everyone has a good time.
- Read my top airport tips. I know, I know…Nothing irks me like that random dude in the security line who thinks because he flies twice a month for business he can start bossing everyone around. Everyone’s an expert, right? But if you’re planning on boarding a plane this year, give these tips a read!
- Stick to your price range. You aren’t going to have a good time if you suddenly run out of money and find yourself with nothing to do, so budget carefully before jetting off somewhere. I think it helps to set a “before-you-go budget” (for flights, lodging, etc.) and a “spending budget” (your allowance while you’re there).
- Think about your accommodation. Whether you choose a luxury hotel like the Renaissance Montreal Downtown Hotel or a youth hostel off the beaten track like Hostal El Momento in Granada, make this a priority. It has to be within your budget, appropriate to your needs, and within reach of the sights you want to see while you’re away. Double-check that you’re booked in before arrival as well, just in case of a mix-up!
- Don’t try and do everything while you’re away. With so many things to see and do, you will burn yourself out if you try and tick off everything on your itinerary. So, plan for downtime, only visit the places you are desperate to see and leave the remainder for your next holiday.
- Forget perfection. The higher your expectation, the more disappointment you will feel if something goes wrong. If you can go with the flow and enjoy the time you have, no matter the mishaps, the more enjoyable your holiday will be. I promise!
What do you think? Have I missed anything? Have you achieved the perfect vacation? TELL US YOUR SECRETS!
Finding delight. 
I’m all about staying seated as long as I can when the plane starts boarding…as long as you’re at the gate, you’d have to do something seriously wrong to miss your flight at that point! Forget queuing up and crowding together.
Speaking of summer vacations, while we hoped we’d go visit family in CA this summer things are turning out quite differently. We may come to Florida instead! Any recs for the Cape Canaveral (and surrounding) area? (May fly into Sanford/Orlando.) Have you guys gone up that way much at all?
Great tip! I HATE being on the plane when it’s just sitting there waiting to taxi. I definitely don’t understand when people boast about getting on the plane first, lol.
If you’ve never been, Kennedy Space Center is actually pretty dope. I’d say that and MANATEES are the must-sees in that area. 🙂
these are actually awesome guides for would be first timers when it comes to solo traveling…
but to answer your question, there is no such thing as the “perfect” vacation, there can only be the perfect attitude for vacations. Why? Because your vacations really depends on one’s ability to adapt while enjoying his or her vacation, even if it rains or shines or if you missed your flight or something. 🙂
I LOVE that outlook, Nicole!
This is really awesome tips, and absolutely what everyone needs. Normally, the most important thing that I always packed on my travel bag is enough medicine. That’s why my husband always called me a pharmacy to go (Lol…).
These are amazing tips Beth! 🙂 I think we just had a perfect vacation in Tromsø, Norway. Though, we packed only winter clothes as even the day before we left the forecast promised 5’C & rain + possible snow, but when we got there each day was 22’C and sunny 😀 oh well, you can’t always win. But it was freaking amazing :3
Oh yes, I agree! Forget about perfection – it puts up too much pressure on you and that’s probably number one reason why couples get into arguments 😀
Actually, there is no perfect vacation! There will always be something to cause a trouble, be it the food or the room, etc. But getting ready in advance and trying to have a few alternatives will make everything easier.
Memories make up the perfect vaction. Not the hotel, not the people, not the place! It is the things you do, the people you do them with, & the feeling you get from being in a place so different from home!